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Then why are you talking about exhibitionism? It's a ridiculous term. Someone wants to celebrate their existence and you call it exhibitionism. It's niggardly. If you don't want someone to know about your existence, you might as well kill yourself. You're taking up space, air. (217)

Eggers, Dave. A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius. New York: Vintage, 2001.